Friday, April 26, 2019

Wisdom: How to Make Big (& Small) Decisions

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 A few weeks ago we had our annual counseling conference at BCC. This year we had a special Youth and Young Adult track titled Pathway to Life. In this track we covered 5 main topics which we are now going over during our IMAGE Sunday School class. Next week’s topic will be “Wisdom: How to Make Big (& Small) Decisions” so I wanted to discuss it a bit more for our youth parents this week.

There seem to be a few common, yet faulty views on decision making we tend to fall into. The first is when making a decision we should simply do whatever we want or “feels” right. While yielding quick results and conclusions, this way leads down a very hard path (Prov 13:15, Jer 17: 5-10). God does not intend for us to live life apart from Him and His direction. Joy, peace, purpose, & direction all flow from that. The second seems to be the complete antitheses. Someone making decisions from this view, rather than ignoring God’s direction, would hyper-spiritualize receiving God’s direction and would oftentimes wait to make a decision till they have received a specific statement or sign from God for what to and until then do nothing. While seemingly better on the outside, this view is just as displeasing to God Who calls us to act and holds us responsible to make decisions for the life, time, finances, relationships, etc He has stewarded to us (Matt 25:14-30).

So what does that mean? I’m not supposed to make decisions on my own without God’s direction, but God expects me to make decisions? Yes. =)

Below is a diagram I will endeavor to explain for how I would suggest as a model for biblical decision making that relies on and involves God while taking into account His expectation for us to act.


When you have a decision to make, whether involving 2 or 200 choices, you can follow this model. The funnel is set up with 4 sections or filters that will begin to weed out choices leaving you at the end with the best decision for you. Notice also, the funnel is built with prayer that pervades every layer.

Prayer:
We are called to bring our needs to God in the Lord’s Prayer and in many other places in Scripture (Matt 6:9-13, 1 Pet 5:7). This should be done constantly throughout your decision making process asking the Lord to lead you to the outcome He would desire, asking Him to help you understand His Word, asking Him to provide you with good counselors, etc.

Filter #1 - Biblical Commands:
What does the Bible explicitly say about your choices. Would any of your choices involves violating a specific law of God? Might you have to lie or “bend the truth” to accomplish one of them? If so, it should be stopped at this filter.

Filter #2 - Biblical Principles:
What are principles you can apply from the Bible to your choices or situations at hand? For example, Proverbs 22:7 states, “The rich rules over the poor, And the borrower becomes the lender’s slave.” This is not a command to not borrow money, but it does give us a strong principle to be care that we not take on burdensome debt. Would one of your choices require you to take on more debt than is healthy? It should be filtered out at this level.

Filter #3 - Wise Counsel:
Proverbs 11:14 states, “Where there is no guidance the people fall, But in abundance of counselors there is victory.” God has given you people in your life to help guide you to make a wise decision. Who might some of them be? I would suggest those who know God’s Word well and have a vibrant relationship with Him are a good choice as they will more naturally be thinking like He does. Those who are older than you and have more life experience would be good also. Those who love you and really want what is best for you. My suggestion would be that as a youth some of the very best people God has probably placed in your life for this kind of counsel are your parents. Go to them. Tell them where you are at in your decision making process. Tell them the choices/options you still have left. Ask for their thoughts, pros & cons, other questions they’d have, etc to gain insight from them as you filter the choices.

Filter #4 - Personal Preference:
For some of you this one may have sent a funny feeling down your spine. I can just choose? Yes! But first notice two things. First, this filter is in the order of the funnel for the reason it is. It is not the first filter, but the last having been seeking God’s will and guidance throughout the process. Second, God says it is ok and good, and He’s built you to have preferences to be able to make choices. Psalm 37:4 says, “Delight yourself in the Lord; And He will give you the desires of your heart.” That could be stated this way… “as you are pursuing the Lord and finding your delight in Him, He will be placing His desires in your heart that you might desire them as well and follow after them.” God has given you the personality, joys, and passions He has for a reason. They are what make you, you and what allow you to make decisions in this final filter of the funnel. If you get to the end of Filter #3 and have the choice between a red or blue car with everything else being equal you can choose the color you like better! =) You don’t have to wait for a sign, lights from Heaven, a fireball to incinerate the other option, … You should give the seller your money and drive away with your new car happy and content that you have obeyed God completely and made a choice that is pleasing to Him.

* One Note * - What about when my choice doesn’t work out?
Does that mean you did something wrong, or stepped out of God’s will, or messed up the funnel, or… No. It simply means that a gracious, good God has chosen to allow you to suffer for your good and His glory like every other hardship and suffering you have in life. Our sins do have consequences, but God is not a vindictive God waiting for us to accidently make a mistake so He can hit us a good one. Nor do hardships and sufferings always mean we have done something wrong. Take a look at Job. He suffered for doing something right! =)


Here are a few questions you might use to generate discussions around this topic…
  • What are some of the bigger questions you think people face in life?
  • What are some ways you think people often make decisions?
  • What are some bigger decisions you’ve made in the past?
  • What do you typically do when you need to make a decision?
  • How might inaction be as displeasing to God as just doing what someone wants without seeking God?
  • Which parts of the funnel seem hardest for you to do?
  • What are some decisions you see yourself needing to make now or in the near future?
  • Would you be willing to let me walk through those decisions with you?

Here is a link for the audio of this session with Scott O’Malley: https://www.bethanycommunitychurch.org/resources/docs/2506-pathway_to_wisdom.mp3



For this reason I too, having heard of the faith in the Lord Jesus which exists among you and your love for all the saints, 16 do not cease giving thanks for you, while making mention of you in my prayers; 17 that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give to you a spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of Him.: (Eph 1:15-17)

 - Phil


pic from: http://www.cbcdundalk.org/fork-in-the-road-32818-pm/

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